How Well Do We Know Each Other

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How Well Do We Know Each Other?

How Well Do We Know Each Other gets the group working together very quickly as well as having a few laughs.

It's perfect if you are looking for an icebreaker for people who already know each other.

Participants have the opportunity to be a creative as well as show off about themselves.

Some cultures might find the showing off part a little off-putting but don't we all need an opportunity to brag a little every now and then?

Personally I think it's good for the soul to open yourself up to being impressed by others achievements.

Objectives

  • To have some fun at the beginning of a workshop session using creative icebreaker questions.
  • To raise the temperature and noise levels.
  • To get to each other better.
  • To develop some fun talking points that can be referred to during the rest of the event.

What is it?

  • An informal activity that gets a group working together very quickly.
  • Icebreaker questions are fun to do while at the same time enabling a group to get to know each other better and build relationships.
  • Non-threatening and not demanding – ideal for the reticent as well as the assertive.

When Would You Use It?

  • Ideal for situations where you are mobilizing a team and you want to quickly promote an informal, relaxed and open atmosphere that will be conducive to collaborative work.
  • It’s also suitable for teams that already know each other but where you are looking for a vehicle to enhance their collaboration, raise their interest or motivate them as a team.
  • Works best in small groups of between five and eight people though can work for larger groups but the time taken extends proportionately.

Are There Any Rules?

  • There’s an optional competitive element – be sure that all group members are happy to keep scores – otherwise delete the scoring element.

Resources Required

  • A willing group of people.
  • Post-it notes and marker pens for each participant (at least one each plus a few extra spares if required).
  • Tables and chairs.

Process

  1. The Facilitator asks the Participants to take three post-it notes and write three statements about themselves, things no-one here knows about you, of which only one is true, e.g.

    1. When I was 14 I played a lot of tennis and once beat Roger Federer.
    2. Most years I go away on holiday to the Caribbean.
    3. In my spare time I’m a magician.
  2. Each Participant takes it turns to present their three statements to the other team members at their table but do not reveal which is true/false.

  3. The other Participants each have one vote to select which of your three statements they consider is true.

  4. If they get it right, they score a point. If they don’t, then you get a point. Keep a record of your scores. The highest score wins!

Secret Sauce

  • It helps to place the three post-its on the table for consideration by the others.
  • Let everyone make their selection before revealing which are false – ending up with the true statement.
  • Ideally, all three statements should appear equally plausible to make the selections challenging!